Lets be honest, I love schedules, to do lists, and organization. But this weekend, spontaneity served us well. I so appreciate those who are flexible enough for an evening of friends and laughter with only a few hours notice and those who understand that there is always an occasion for some fro-yo!
In order to combat the independent will of a 3 year old (as a wise friend shared, 3 is 2 with intent) I find myself offering choices. Many times, its the lesser of two evils; "you can either eat your dinner or go to bed" - "you can speak nicely or have a seat in time out".
What if there isn't a semi-positive option?
Hopefully my children will choose not to let the evil in or let it out.....
The "evil" depicted above are characters in Disney on Ice (Bruce - the shark from Nemo, Genie from Aladdin, and Beast from Beauty & the Beast)
Celia Eleanor Betz died one week ago. Just two months shy of her 5th birthday and two years after her family received the official Batten's Disease diagnosis.
I could quote a famous philosopher, bible scripture, or song lyrics but nothing seems right except the insight of some very special children so this video will suffice.
After Celia's memorial service a few families went to Red Robin. When the children received their after dinner balloon they decided to share a special red (to match Celia's hair) one with Celia in heaven.....